Have you ever been spanked as a child? The topic of spanking as a disciplinary method has been widely debated, with many experts arguing that it is neither effective nor beneficial in the long run. The American Academy of Pediatrics has strongly opposed corporal punishment, citing research that links it to negative behavioral and emotional outcomes. Despite these concerns, some parents continue to defend spanking, seeing it as a reasonable and necessary form of discipline.
Among those who have openly shared their perspective on this issue is singer, songwriter, and television personality Kelly Clarkson. The former American Idol winner and celebrated talk show host has been candid about her parenting approach, which includes occasional spanking when she deems it necessary.
During a radio interview in 2019, Clarkson explained her stance, revealing that she does not oppose spanking her children when it comes to maintaining discipline. As a mother of two—her daughter, River Rose, now 8, and her son, Remy, now 6—Kelly made it clear that she is not against this form of discipline.
“I’m not above spanking,” she admitted. “I don’t mean hitting her hard or anything like that. I just mean a little spanking, just enough to make a point.”
Clarkson’s approach to discipline stems from her own upbringing. Having grown up in Texas, she was raised with spanking as a common practice, and she believes it played a role in shaping her into the person she is today.
“My parents used to spank me, and I turned out just fine,” she shared. “Being from the South, it’s pretty common for us to get spanked. If I ever found myself in trouble at school, my mom would even give permission for a spanking. I consider myself a well-rounded individual with strong character, so I believe it was all for the best.”
Her words reflect a perspective that many parents still hold—one that views spanking as a traditional disciplinary method rather than a harmful or outdated practice. For some, it is a straightforward way to establish boundaries and reinforce rules.
Balancing Discipline and Public Perception
While Clarkson remains firm in her beliefs about discipline, she also acknowledges that her parenting style, particularly her stance on spanking, can be controversial. She recognizes that disciplining children in public can invite criticism and unwanted attention.
“It’s tough when you’re out in public because people can be so judgmental,” she said. “They look at you like you’re doing something wrong, but personally, I don’t see anything wrong with a little spanking. If I’m at the zoo with my kids and they start acting out, you might see me give them a little smack.”
Clarkson has also emphasized that she doesn’t use spanking as a first resort. Instead, she warns her children in advance and gives them a chance to correct their behavior before taking action.
